Friends for laughs
A while ago Id read an article how to maintain and nurture friends. Yeah .. like a marriage friendships too need to be nurtured.
But this got me thinking what kind of friends need nurturing. Are they worth the time and energy I take to nurture the relationship?
Most of us get carried away by the bling of some relationships. Some aspects like material wealth, personal looks weigh in where they should not have been. Of course as always 'we' are far wiser than we realize!!!! The signals are all there, but we chose to ignore them. Some signals Id noticed more often..... people don't bother to call you back.
Well.... these friends are what I call Friends for Laughs. They want you just for hanging around and having a great time.
Ironically and fortunately Ive friends who have stuck around with me through all those storms ... even after I didn't work on the relationship.
At some of those trying times, its those true ones who take the trouble of calling and speaking to you. Helping out with all the stuff without even asking. In short those friends I know I can call at midnight and rant or talk.
And yes, this is the reason why am writing a blog on friendship even after theres an older post.
Moral: With one life to live, Id better pick my friends wisely.
lol.
As for my 'Friends for Laughs' Ill have the last laugh.....
lol !!!!!
